Saturday, July 29, 2006

First date mistakes

Annoying situation: after the first date ended in bed he disappears without calling you back. If it is the first case in your dating practice, you might have come across a Don Juan who loses all interest in a woman after she gives in. Then do not blame yourself. But if men disappear one by one after the first romantic date, you should think over what you are doing wrong. When he asks you for a date, to accept the invitation is right. Smile and say “OK”. Do not pepper him with questions like “Where are we going”? And” What will we be doing”? Or he might understand it as your doubting him. Let him choose. And then he will feel the master of the situation. As for you, you will understand a lot about him, seeing where he prefers to go on a date. During the date do not chat non stop, try to listen and to say “yes”. Besides, men hate women who are constantly giggling, they take it as laughing at their account. Remember, that to demonstrate their strong sides to the females is in the males' nature: birds show off their feathers, mammals fight with each other. Play into your partner's hand: ask questions and listen to the answers with real concern. Do not over try: excessive attention to his salary, apartment and promotion perspectives will make him worry and suspect you are hunting his money.

Learn how to say good bye to your date. Do not ask him the leading question: “When will I see you again”? Do not press on him to go together to the theatre or to a restaurant. The initiative of the next date should come from a man. Otherwise he will have the impression that you are trying to manipulate him. Thank him for the great evening and disappear like a fairy into the night.

1 comments:

Helen said...

Hi! Thank you for the useful tips! I've quoted some of them in my Dating Mistakes article.
Best Regards,
Helen